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Sunday, May 15, 2011

The Phenomenon - 'Broken Hearted'


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Yes, it's that feeling which provokes you to a useless question you ask yourself - 'Should I kill myself ?', the phenomenon called ' Broken hearted'. It makes you feel all alone, and you think ' Truly man, everybody is selfish' for most of the people around you, or you start thinking you're the biggest possible loser in the history.

Where lovely bollywood songs become your only peace. 'Kurbaan hua', 'barbaad hua' then will show you your own story. 'Dost dost na raha' will suddenly seem to you the most realistic song ever and you'll keep saying 'Kya gaya hai yaar'. You'll get upset and stretch your face so long that it touches the ground while you listen to 'Kati patang'. Western songs like 'Destroyed in love','Desertrose' add to the list of songs which can push you even more deep into the lonely world and of course you'll love it thinking 'Nobody understands me'.

Being broken hearted has just one reason if you put it in straight simple words - Denied of an intense passion for something. It can be anything - A brilliant student failing in his exams , a passionate lover destroyed in love,a person who always wanted peace screwed up from the family front or a person who thinks that he is good at something else and is doing something else. It'll break your heart completely as the passion in you has been denied.

You'll be under a misconception that it's only you who's having all the problems in the world. You'll get angry and irritated at the smallest of the things (If you don't you've supernatural powers and probably you're the successor to shaktimaan or someone). For guys being sad is another reason to booze more (well they don't need any reason for that, even not having a reason is reason enough to drink) and hence suddenly the profits of wine shops and bars will increase.Girls who're sad suddenly will feel unfortunate not to be born in a chocolate factory as chocolate will be only thing they'll want (apart from new clothes,costly perfumes and everything that burns a hole in the pocket) and hence money will start flowing again.

Trust me when somebody is sad their father's will know it in the best way as even he's sad shelling out that sum which you take from him telling him all wrong different reasons which are not even close to the real ones (Tuition classes have really helped students gain a lot of money from home lately - a survey shows). Your phone bills will show a rise as you would want to talk to each and everybody in the town (sometimes abroad too when you're super sad and you don't realise it's a bloody 10 bucks per minute call). Your long lost relative will suddenly feel at most affection from you. The illegal movie downloads will see a increase too when you're sad. 'Dasavtar' and movies like 'Robot' which show the larger than life picture will seem like an epic to you. You'll bore your friends to death by telling them about your future prospects thousand times a day. To cut it short you'll do everything to make the situation more miserable and worse for yourself.

Being broken hearted is a chance to stand up. You can never stand if you're not on the ground. It's a phenomenon which if taken in the right way can bring out the best in you and make you more strong and stable about things. You'll learn to have patience and your tolerance level will increase and you'll be able to see things more clearly. Sit and think what went wrong, criticize yourself a little, pamper yourself a bit and you'll know how to make it right because there's no bloody problem which doesn't have a goddamn solution. And if there's no way you can see, realize and accept - 'It's time to move on'. It's difficult but you've to do it for yourself rather than living in a confusion. Dance, do crazy things, make fun of yourself, bring out the humor from those sad things and you'll realize it's not that bad. Believe that cheesy line people say ' Time will heal everything', because it's damn right! And remember there're plenty of things around to be happy, open your eyes and see it. See Sachin win a test match for India at 37,See India tv for a while and you'll know there are other big losers too, Force your mum for making the things you like, be naughty with your friends and don't get caught, Love yourself and love others. And you'll start feeling that happiness mending your heart back.

 
                               Image Courtesy : Google Images


Somebody said it to me sometime 'You wait to be happy,You'll be happy never. You start being happy,You'll happy forever'.

So grab that happiness and make the most out of that phenomenon - 'Broken hearted'. ;-)

Take care,
God bless!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

interesting, but just too much(all those jumping images)hahaha
:)

Amar Ashok Jajoo said...

I know..But I thought it will show the happy side of a person..Guess not everybody thinks the way i do..:(..Anyways..Thanks..:)

Keep reading!:)

Purba said...

You need to do something about the font, almost made it unreadable.

Do you mind putting para breaks, one very long block of text makes it very intimidating for the reader.

Will come back again.

Amar Ashok Jajoo said...

@Purba..I've always been the cursive writing guy,I guess that's the reason for my obsession with Corsiva..:P..Thanks for the suggestion..I'm dropping the obsession now..;)..And putting the para breaks too..:)..Hope you visit soon and comment something about the post..!! Thanks..:)