Need - A four letter word leading to so many things in this world. Everything happens for a need. Fight - need to prove that you're right, eat - need to live, smile - need to be happy, cry - need to give it off from your heart.
Everything happens for a need and in turn gives rise to a new need. A person who has money will need love, a person who has love will need some more love. The need will never satisfy.
We human beings will know it better then anybody the meaning of 'need' which makes us so selfish,self centered at times that we tend to ignore everything. We forget others are human beings too. Everybody is needy. We think about our ownselves.
Even a father scolding his son for his bad performance in exams has a selfish interest at times when he says 'what will people say now ?'
We get so selfish at times that we don't realise what are we doing. Remember the last time you lied to save your skin ; i'm sure it isn't far away. It saves your for a moment but at the cost of something. Once again you betray yourself. The easiest one can do - to betray oneself.
Everything we do is for us. We don't think about others. Nobody really does.
Somedays back i went to Mother Teresa's home at Pune, I donated some clothes. I saw people who couldn't speak properly,some mentally ill, some crippled for life but still helping each other out,considerate towards each other,a nun sitting in between all of them and feeding them medicines. And i could just say one thing 'And we grudge about things'. Guys, i'm not telling you to be a saint,with so many things on our head i'm sure we can never be, but the least we can do is be considerate towards everybody forgetting about our needs, our selfish motive at times, putting our need at stake at times when we sometime see the person more needy then us. Some of you may question , what's the point ? Try doing it , the way you will feel after it will be the answer. You'll be happy with things internally but ofcourse at a cost,at the cost of your need. You'll feel like a better person because you'll know in some way or the other you've helped the world getting a bit better..:-)
Be good, do good, be one !!
8 comments:
Well said dude :)
But then again, every living being has a survival instinct. Whether we like it or not, everything we do is for ourselves. Even when we help oothers, it is for ourselves. Some might do it to satiate their egos, some to kill their guilt, some to make others depend on them, some to do something productive, some to gain divine blessings, etc
Everything we do, directly or indirectly, is for ourselves. There's no escaping this fact.
Cheers
CRD
Well said dude :)
But then again, every living being has a survival instinct. Whether we like it or not, everything we do is for ourselves. Even when we help oothers, it is for ourselves. Some might do it to satiate their egos, some to kill their guilt, some to make others depend on them, some to do something productive, some to gain divine blessings, etc
Everything we do, directly or indirectly, is for ourselves. There's no escaping this fact.
Cheers
CRD
Yeah, there's no escaping to the fact. Really pinching but true. Specially when some of us pass the whole of their lives trying to prove that they're not selfish. ;-)..
Thanks for reading out..:-)
Yeah, there's no escaping to the fact. Really pinching but true. Specially when some of us pass the whole of their lives trying to prove that they're not selfish. ;-)..
Thanks for reading out..:-)
Human nature I guess lust, greed, charity,compassion!!
Human nature I guess lust, greed, charity,compassion!!
For sure..:)
For sure..:)
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