‘Things not to say when you propose’

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Most relationships end up before even starting and the reason – Guys being the losers they’re at talking, screw up the proposal part. When you’re all set to propose the girl of your dreams, you might want to avoid saying a few things which can really get you in trouble or worse, you lose her once it for all. Here are a few things which shouldn’t say even if it’s the last thing you want to say before you die someday.
  ‘You know I use to like your best friend first, but then I realized - it’s not her, it’s you!’

Say that if you’re really strong and don’t mind taking a few beatings from her. Now, one may wonder, ‘As if that’ll hurt?’ Don’t underestimate them. When they hit it, they hit it really bad! And besides no girl deserves and wants to the second choice, and definitely not when her best friend is the first!

  ‘I can really keep you happy; I’ve a lot of money’

It may work for a few of them but most of them will take it as an insult. So even though it’s true that you need money to keep her happy, (You can’t just pamper them with self written songs and poems these days, that’s thing of the past. These days it’s about that ‘costly-burning-a-hole-in-the-pocket-perfume’ or that classic ‘made-by-killing-an-innocent-animal’ leather bag or anything that keeps them happy!) Don’t try to impress her with your money!

  ‘Just by looking at you I can tell you that we’re going to have amazing kids’

Seriously? That is a cute line and works alright but not when you propose (Except some larger than life SRK movie). Don’t freak the girl out by talking about your family plans. Remember when you propose, it should be only about her and not about any other single thing. So, wait a little bit for your family dreams, you’re not going to get infertile in that little bit!

  ‘You look great; I wonder why your facebook picture is not that great?’

The moment you say that, forget the girl. When you said that the display pic on FB isn’t great, you probably forgot that she’s a girl and more than half of the boys in her friend list must have hit the like button! Whatever you do just don’t talk about the pic if it isn’t great and you’re not good in lying!

  ‘You know, I got a lot of girls crazy about me, but I’m crazy about you!’

When you said that, you forgot the basic principle – ‘The stud gets the girl first but in the end it’s the baby face who always has the last laugh with the chick on his side!’ Don’t try and be a stud and even if you’re, conceal the fact. A girl will like a stud for a moment but will always settle down with the other kind!

  ‘You know there was this cruel girl I used to love a lot, but you’re not like her’

What exactly were you thinking when you said that? That’s not a compliment. So even though that’s an honest confession for a guy, for a girl it’s ‘Oh my God, he’s still not over his ex!’ Save it for the right time, for example when you’re in a great mood to bitch about your ex but seriously not when you propose!

Proposing that special girl should be as special to you as it becomes to her, so try and make it special in the best way possible and avoid saying stupid things. And if you really have a problem with words – Do more, talk less! Take her to a candle light dinner; bribe the restaurant to play her favorite track, pour a glass of wine for her and tell her she’s is what real beauty really is!

Oh yes! Don’t ever forget to say those magical three words, ‘I love you!’

Take care :)